EXPLANATION KUNG BAT GANYAN ANG CULTURE NILA ------------>

Filipina married to an indian here...as for me since ikaw nmn ang nanay dapat lng n ikaw masusunod sa ways sa pag aalaga at pag papalaki sa anak mo...ako din parehas tayo...i don't agree sa mga tradisyon Nila n pag ka kajal ( maduming tignan) at pag kalbo on specific age...lahat Ng desisyon ako ang nasusunod since wala nmng partisipasyon mga inlaws ko sa pagpapalaki sa baby ko...and they respect it... kasi they can see how I took care of my son...malinis, mabango, malinis at maayos mga gamit niya...sa mga nakita ko kasi sa mga inlaws ko di sila maselan sa pag aalaga sa baby...kahit saan nilalapag baby at pinapaliguan sa mismong floor Ng bathroom...at di maselan sa paglalaba Ng mga damit Ng baby...at binibilhan lng Nila Ng damit pagkapanganak n at di n nilalabhan Pina pasuot n agad at di sila kagaya satin n mostly puti damit Ng baby para neat sila puro di kulay.. anyways that's my experience kaya my advice...your child your rules

As for my experience, married and living here in india and having a baby, depende sau un kung susundin moh mga beliefs nla.. Like for me na masyado hands-on pagdating sa baby ko ako nasusunod when it come to his hygiene and welfare.. Hnd rin ako nglalagay ng kajal sa baby ko kasi my reason is that could risk infection to his eyes. At yong massage pumayag ako pero according to my instructions na smooth lng.. At ung sa name combination ng english at indian name which i name my son zane advik, at first medyo daming tanong pero i answer anyone who ask na its a mutual decision of my husband and i to name him that, Kaya ok naman.. Kasi at the beginning cnabi ko na un sa asawa ko na pagdating sa pagpapalaki ko sa anak ko ayaw ko nkikialam mga byenan ko.. Kaya alam din nla limitasyon nla sa panghihimasok pagdating sa anak ko..

Depende nalng po yan kong maiintindihan ba nila yong mga reason niyo ang importante is sinabi niyo lng kong ano ang nararamdaman niyo..at naging totoo kayo.. i salute you for being true to yourself.

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Half indian ako its all normal for bad and good luck habang lumalaki yung bata.as of indian culture sinusunod talaga lahat ng tradition.at kahit po lumayo kayo gagawin at gagawin nyo parin yung tradition.for me mas ok ako sa indian name kasi people thinks of my name was unique,but my sons name was in english name although my father gave him an indian name that we always call him.

Napakamatured niyong mag-isip about pgpapamilya, sign of being becoming a very responsible parents, saludo ako sa inyo

I'm so lucky that my bf is very understanding about the difference of our culture.. waiting na lang kami sa paglabas ng baby,hope to see you there in India..

I agree with you.You’ve been fair naman sa kanila dahil sinunod mo naman yung kultura nila hanggang sa makakaya mo.Kung hindi ka comfortable & you feel it will not be good for you,your baby & your family,then I believe you have all the right to refuse to participate.You are not Indian from birth,you have your own identity,don’t lose that or you will not be happy.I can see from your vlogs that you know what you want & you have your own principles.I admire you for that!This is my opinion.More power,girl!

Aggree ako sa iyo ! You can do sometimes their tradition and culture as a gesture of respect to your in laws and husband but not to my child ako Ang masusunod.syempre need mo ring ipaliwanag sa mga in laws mo in a nice way.

Hi Elena may point ka sa situation na yan if ever na magkaanak kayo...ayoko sana mag comment tungkol sa cultural differences nyo mag asawa pero pra sakin dpat pag usapan nyo tlga yan kc kayo lng nman tlga makkapagdecide kung anong klase at paano nyo aalagaan at palalakihin ang mga magging anak nyo... Yes! Au have all the right in the world when it comes to ur baby kc ur the mother but u have to consider too Adi's opinion and say because his the father too. Kaya our comments and advice are only suggestions kyo parin ang magddecide. By the way Elena gusto ko lng sabibin sau that i like and admire u for being straightforward and being true and vocal wala kng arte pagdating sa ganyan despite the fact that ur only 24. Galing! Di ako basta basta humahanga sa mga vlogs na pinapanood ko pero sa vlogs nyo nattuwa ako very intertaining at the same time may nappulot akong aral. Continue lng for being maarte and kikay kc bagay sayo. Stay safe and be blessed

Actually I don't agree with that also, but it's doesn't mean I didn't respect their culture but a baby has a sensitive skin, I think the best way is to talk to mother- in - law about your decisions as mother, I know na i-rerespeto naman siguro nila yung decision mo kasi nga ikaw naman yung ina kaya tamang explain lang siguro sa kanila ,sabi nga nila mothers know best eh

Based on my experience... I am not picky... and para sa mga in laws ko if they want to do something from their grandkids why not... i let them do it. Because if u let them they will let u do things too as well. Vice versa... as a respect. My indian husband and I decided to give english name to our sons... hindi pinoy name at hindi indian name para equal and also in terms of last name i let our tradition filipino ways na last name ko as a middle name and his last name. Ang laging nagdedecision parati is you and your husband no one else. Our parents can only support lang thats it. On this kind of strategy our both families are OK naman. It depends how u deliver it both ways...

I really understand naman po sa reason mo po. Hindi po porque nag asawa ka ng ibang lahi at ibang kultura e. Totally embrace muna kaagad yung mga maniniwala nila.

Iba yong pagaalaga natin sa mga anak kaya wag mong hayaan na ang biyanan mo ang masusunod dahil ikaw ang magulang . Tayong mha pinoy ay malinis sa katawan at sa paligid. Araw araw tayong naliligo kahit maginaw dito sa canada ganito kami

Sabi po ng indiano kong asawa yung eyeliner daw na nilalagay sa mga baby, is hindi yan ordinaryong eyeliner. May purpose daw..may tawag dw po sila nyan. Pampagrow po yan ng hair sa kilay at pilik mata.. Kaya, mostly sa mga indians makakapal pilik mata at kilay nila dahil nilalagyan sila nyan nung baby pa sila. Ang asawa ko, makapal pilik mata nya at curly, kaya tinanong ko sya bakit ganun.. Sabi nya dahil nung baby pa sila may nilalagay na parang eyeliner.. God bless you always adele vlogs

D agree .... habang maaga pa pwede mo open up sa mga in laws mo na ayaw mo gawin yun pag may baby na kayo Get well soon Elena

Hi Adele kamusta kayong dalawa . Your right you got a valid point and its so important to discuss to your other behalf lalo’t India culture is totally different to other culture . Always communicate to your husband to everything that are very importans . Just respect your In laws .