When I read the Kama Sutra, it definitely didn’t seem like a book of sexual positions. It was like a guide on how to woo a wife that you’ve probably never met before and motivate her to open up and be happy in this new arrangement with you. It talked about how body compatibility is important and there’s no shame in not wanting to be with someone your body can’t pair with. It really talked a lot about how a man should treat a woman, how to be gentle, and understanding of how difficult marrying a man she’s never met might be for her, and being considerate about how hard moving away from all her family must be. In general, it seem like a book on how to be a good partner, both women and men. Not how to fuck.

The beauty oft the Indians. Their culture is unmatched

Ancient wisdom served-up in a modern context! Wonderful dialog.

So interesting! I am very intrigued by this. It's true that the way sex is spoken about and expressed today is so vulgar and unappealing (to me anyway) but the way she was describing it was beautiful and sensual. What I learned from this episode is the importance of engaging the senses as much as possible so that you remain present and really enjoy the intimacy (not just penetration). As a lover of perfume, she got me with the perfuming different parts of the body! How imaginative

This was amazing Shan! Please bring her back for part two. She is a gem. Thank you for your work mama. You and your husband are beautiful. Sending love

this is my absolute favorite episode! seema is so brilliant

by far the best L&F episode i've seen. i got to a point where i genuinely didn't associate any pleasure with sex anymore. i've been abstinent by choice for a very long time. this episode not only struck me in terms of redefining an aspect of my cultural identity and history, but also allowing me to expand my view of pleasure around sex as pleasure IN sex. redefining foreplay. redefining taking your time and how you do it. the playfulness, the wit, the actual art of flirting and seduction that isn't about games but is genuinely about deepening connection and intimacy. wow. thank you both

I’m kind of amazed by this. Such a good listen!

I know you hate astrology Shan but as someone with a Scorpio Moon and Taurus rising talking about sex + pleasure, adornments, engaging the senses/sensuality gets me so excited!

Love this conversation.. sex is a ritual for two loving beings, it brings them together and it is supposed to be a language only two can understand.

This episode is fascinating, thought provoking and full of wisdom. I absolutely love this content.

History like this really shows just how much colonialism and colonization really has us missing out on true and timeless gems.

Really appreciative of points made from 1:15 - 3:00, especially 2:05 - 3:00. Brilliant.

This was incredibly refreshing! So much ancient wisdom! I like how natural the conversation was & how it flowed! Seema is great! Please more content like this!