Intentionality is really powerful. It amazes me how many people are waking up to it when that same intentionality was seen as the basis of magic for some ancient cultures.

What I learned long ago is that you do not need to ask any questions or seek anything in life. If you are meant to have something, the answer to a challenging question, a caring spouse, or a bad spouse, a good career, or something contrary, they will be given to you. Events will just arrange for them to happen to you. All you have to do is just complete whatever tasks you need to do right now, like pay your bills, cook food for your family, go to work on time, etc, and spend your free time relaxing. Whatever is meant for you in life is already preplanned and is on the way. No need to stress it or think about it. When it is time for you to know, you will know. Otherwise, just stay in your lane and let life do the driving.

Constant self care can feel like a trap. The key is to understanding that growth is part of life, but you also have to be content with who you are during the journey. Understand that you are not your true self, but you can still enjoy the process of learning. Trying your best, wanting what's best for yourself is enough. The only person you have to be better than is who you were yesterday. Only YOU need to see your growth. No one else. You're doing great. Trust yourself more. Your thoughts become your reality. <3

i want to get into poetry, but someone i used to love was into poetry and i get reminded of them everytime i want to start.

exactly, im too comfortable with negativity but i hate it at the same time

happiness is a choice. choose to be happy, no matter the circumstances and eventually you will be. you won't always win, but keep fighting, and eventually you will win.

I don't have the motivation to get better. Sometimes I scrape together just enough to take a small step out of my comfort zone. I'm too used to being alone though. Hope things work out for you.

These brief but meaningful moments of clarity I experience will save my from this insane path I'm on. Thank you so much for reminding me about love and joy.

Don't know why this was recommended to me, but I'm glad it was. Take care of each other!

Empty castles

Pretty spot on. Most, no matter the situation, will eventually fall back into repetitiveness, telling themselves, —it is what it is, as you've already said. From there, it just becomes another loop. Regardless, I wish you all the best moving forward, and the same to anyone who comes across these comments at one point or another.

ugh I needed this, i hope you have that happiness queen️️️️